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Comments by Shaun D

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8 Posts (+4), 26 Cmts (+15)

Yes, I've had similar things happen to me multiple times. It's just part of the current dating world, unfortunately.

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8 Posts (+4), 26 Cmts (+15)

You're explaining yourself too much in your texts and being too agreeable. You didn't challenge her on anything. Keep it more succinct, throw in some flirty banter, use takeaways, etc. Also four straight messages in two hours seems needy.

You could try waiting a few days and reengage with a different strategy.

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8 Posts (+4), 26 Cmts (+15)

I haven't found a great reply to this kind of situation yet, but here's a few ideas:

All I got was (area code)...
Don't be shy now

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8 Posts (+4), 26 Cmts (+15)

Yes, more succinct for sure man. Way too logical, way too much information over the app. Also don't need to respond to every question she asks, and probably don't joke about the serial killing more than once.

Just my take.

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8 Posts (+4), 26 Cmts (+15)

Supposedly tinder keeps your data for three months after you quit. Not saying you have to wait that long, but after that amount of time you should definitely be in the clear.
Bumble seems to be a bit more lenient on restarts, and hinge I'm not sure.

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8 Posts (+4), 26 Cmts (+15)

Thanks for the feedback man. I agree that some are too posed, but surely some of these can do well, like the second or last ones for instance?

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8 Posts (+4), 26 Cmts (+15)

Thanks man, I'll try those out.

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It's the pictures in my opinion. Too many selfies at home or in the car. Lightning is bad on some of the later ones. Expression is pretty intense on some too, might want to try smirking more.

I would suggest having someone take some pictures of you going out to random places and doing cool shit, and pick out the best ones from that.

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8 Posts (+4), 26 Cmts (+15)

Ok, that makes sense. I may look into improving those.

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8 Posts (+4), 26 Cmts (+15)

Thanks man, using 14 as my main pic is definitely helping with matches.

Do you think the gym and guitar pics are worth including?

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