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leaving hickeys on girls, do you or not?

So I personally dont like hickeys on me. They have in the past lost me a few rotation girls or new girls(heads up I guess lol). I also think its kinda cheesy/rookie way to kiss However, some girls ask me to leave it on them, and I've notice some girls take photos and send it to me afterwards. I am wondering if leaving hickey is a good idea to increase chances of another date. Or is it more likely to get girl to ghost as I'm sure some girls dont like it as I dont. Just not sure whats the higher probability play as more girls dont ask. Should I somehow ask first maybe? Curious on yall experiences and thoughts

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texted "that was (fire emoji)"after close she responded "what was"

usually shit test stop after close, seems this one wants to continue lol anyone know a good response

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girl flakes dates and blocks me?

first time this happen, girl agreed to date, said she is 15 mins away, asks me if I am there and I say 1 min away then she blocks me and unmatched me crazy as it seemed like it was on, and she had a insta so seemed legit. has this happened to anyone here? curious how many times if so

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best first date no close follow up response?

so we know the that was fire one for closed, But what is a good maybe funny response to dates that didn't close to try and get a 2nd date? I know the point of no return will make it less likely to get a response but still curious what has been the most successful response / follow up people used after first dates that didn't close

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Visualize your tinder data

Anyone here ever tried this? https://www.swipestats.io/ Seems to be a great way to track/monitor your online dating results. This game can get deep lol Feel free to post your results and we can compare

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Best Reopener for 2+ month old leads?

So sometimes I get busy or travel and leave pretty decent leads for 2+ months. Curious if anyone has good reopeners for these type of leads? I usually send the skeleton meme if I was the last one to message. Or a hey girl meme if she was the last to message. Curious what y'all do

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pr0n Spam Links not being removed?

So there seems to be pr0n spam links being posted, I reported them but still seems to not be removed. Is this just on my end or do yall see them too I think having extra verification on sign up can deal with it or maybe add more mods, I'll be willing to delete them as I have been flagging them

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"I think ima go" objection

so sometimes when girl is back at my place vibe dies down or whatever and she says something on the lines of "I think Ima go" usually by then I tried multiple different approaches to close so I just say "I'll walk you out" and plan a 2nd date depending if I think that could resolve it but wondering if anyone has a better way to handle this or what would y'all do in this scenario

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fastest way to escalate and your hail mary escalation?

So I am curious when the girl is back at your place, what are your guys fastest way to escalate? I am also curious if things aren't going anywhere and the girl got to go soon, what is the hail mary play to try to close the deal one last time? My current strategy is chit chat, build comfort, and wait for moments to sexualize, but sometimes this can take hours depending how comfortable the girl is, the topics we're talking about, how she responds, etc thus I end up not closing sometimes even if the girl is back at mine smh Anyone have high closing techniques that work fast?

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Girl with no drinking in profile

So Hinge and bumble allow you to say if you're a drinker. Even tinder some girls say in bio, "I dont drink" Curious if anyone has a go to response for these as asking if the girl likes wine when the profile says they dont drink seems a little uncalibrated anyone had success here? curious on the line used if so

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