Heres the thing:
I literally do everything that you suggested except for spending the night and that part is not due to me, but them not wanting to. Which I don't mind, I'm not about to beg them to stay, since I got my nut.
The last few girls I fucked, I've been practicing the sex god method on and made all but one squirt quite a bit, even without the dick. Crazy thing this is, the one that didn't squirt, happens to be the one I refuse to do pillow talk or anything emotional with and yet she is the one that keeps coming back.

So I honestly, don't know what the hell I'm doing wrong. Hell, even on my after sex text, they tell me its the best sex they had. Not all, but a lot. But when it comes to planning something a second time, that's where the shenanigans about keeping a girl starts happening. (busy, got stuff going on, ghost, excuses, not responding to text regarding a plan.)
I promise I do make it a point to keep emotionally connect with girls I'm attracted to after sex. Maybe they're just not feeling my vibe, or maybe its my looks. I truly don't know.

Funny thing is when I hit on her. I saw her with a kid that looked to be 5 years of age.
I didn’t even know she had a newborn until we started texting lol.

Unfortunately, I already sent a text about planning for next week and haven’t got a response back. I might have lost this one.

Hopefully I’ll get to a point where I’m not socially retarded on text. Thankfully I’ve been cold approaching like a mad man.
Looking forward to more input on my future text game.