Comments by Bob Rao
Joined 4y agoMaybe just ask her a normal question? This is what happens when you use gamey routines like Todd's or routines in general, you either become an uncalibrated robot or think every line has to be some gamey witty thing and end up not being able to have a normal human interaction.
What are you saying exactly? My guess is you are probably not leading enough. Also, you can just lead directly straight to the room in the first place. She knows what's up if she's going back to your place. It's actually more uncalibrated if you are slowplaying it by wasting time in the living room first.
It's important to understand context and why and when to use lines rather than autopilot copypasting. In this case, you are trying to set a frame of sexual authority through your sexting (sexting isn't just to make a girl horny). So, it doesn't make much sense when you say you're shy virgin. She obviously thinks you must have been with a lot of girls since you sound experienced from your sexting so you want to give off that impression of being experienced without setting off potential one-night stand/hookup concerns. A better response would be something like "I don't know honestly. Don't keep a count as I don't care for numbers, but it's enough to where I'm experienced." Right now, you can just say I was kidding and then say previous line.
you already said let's do sunday text before so I wouldn't repeat along those lines again. You can just like her message or say "see you then"
That's amazing, but I'm going to guess something may be lacking...
Just a few, but don't worry, they don't have a booty like yours/cook like you (or other qualifying statement)
Romantic vineyard? Just go for a more casual date like drinks or coffee. As a backpacker especially, she's gonna wanna have fun. If you knew these girls are getting pulled from clubs after 30mins or even less and maybe getting closed in a car, you prob wouldn't do such fancy romantic dates, at least not for a first date

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The disrespect is real. Flakes on you and doesn't even apologise. She sees you as nothing. Be a man with some dignity and move on.