For guys who live in bigger cities and are around age 25-30, how many Likes do you get from each 30 minute Tinder Boost? Just curious!
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In my experience, beards are highly polarizing - either women love them or they don't. Beards have also become more trendy now with more celebrities sporting facial hair and beards. For the guys here who can grow a full beard, have you noticed a significant difference in how you're received from women with and without a beard?
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Anyone notice that younger women (under 25) are more cool with going straight a guy's place from apps, while older women put up more resistance? I know there's the whole "stranger danger" phenomenon, but younger women seem more chill about it while older women act more scared. Is it because for the younger generation, it's a cool and socially acceptable thing to do while for the older generation grew up with meeting in public first? Or maybe some of these older women used to go over to guy's places in their younger years, but now want to be taken out first because they have higher expectations? Anyone have an explanation for why is this?
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My city is back in lockdown with most indoor spaces closed and limits on large gatherings. This makes meeting new girls more challenging. As we approach winter, going out for walks in the cold or meeting at a park in the dark is also less appealing. I've suggested wine and movie dates at my place but many girls are not comfortable with the suggestion. How receptive would girls be to a virtual first date over Zoom and - if there's chemistry - a second date at my place? Any guys here have luck with this approach?
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Girls who’ve gone straight to a guy’s place at least once before: a) Most are open to doing it again with you b) Remaining are in their "post-ho" phase Girls who've never gone straight to a guy's place before: a) Most will decline the invite b) Remaining are open to it but need more "comfort" Our goal is to maximize exposure to find 1a and 2b. Thoughts?
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Last year and earlier this year (pre-pandemic), I had a good run with inviting girls straight over. At least half the girls who came over ended with a makeout/BJ/smash. In the past three months, I've had six girls who came directly to my place from Tinder and Bumble (age 32, 29, 34, 31, 32, 26). All six girls came directly to my apartment. One (34) spent the night. None resulted in bangs. ls the pandemic is contributing to girls less inclined to engage in "risky" behavior? Is it age? This year, most of the women who came over were in the 29-34 range. Last year, most girls who came over were 22-28. I figured any who'd come straight over to my place would be a done deal - irrespective of age. However, it seems many early 30s women will come over yet won't do anything physical. Why would this be? Curious if Alex or others with experience have noticed anything similar.
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If you live in a city of 5 million with a constant churn of new profiles, you’re operating an infinite pool. If you’re getting a steady stream of matches, a high volume low investment strategy is the best approach. One huge change I’ve noticed over 10 years of online dating is girls today seldom initiate, nor do they invest much by asking questions, responding in a timely manner etc. Maintaining a real time conversation over text is difficult in these overstimulated ADD times. Having said that, girls today are much more inclined to meet quickly with little upfront “comfort” provided you msg her at the right time and she’s in the right state - ideally the same night or within 1-3 days max. Think of it like a hand grenade - the longer you wait the more likely it’ll blow up. Thus, a high volume low investment “strike while the iron is hot or keep moving” approach can line you up 1-3 dates each week via maximizing exposure in a big city. Thoughts?
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Any guys here still meeting new girls from dating apps? Curious.
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Anyone here have success with inviting girls directly to your place from apps? You'd think every girl that comes over is DTF, but in my experience that's not always the case. Is this true for anyone else? Last year and earlier this year (pre-pandemic), I had a good run with inviting girls straight over. At least half the girls who came over ended with a makeout/BJ/smash. In the past two months, I've had four girls who came directly to my place from Tinder and Bumble (age 32, 29, 34, 31) . All four girls came directly to my apartment. One spent the night. None resulted in bangs. ls the pandemic is contributing to girls less inclined to engage in "risky" behavior? Is it age? This year, the girls who came over were in the 29-34 range. Last year, most girls who came over were 22-28. I figured any who'd come straight over to my place would be a done deal - irrespective of age. However, it seems many early 30s women will come over yet won't do anything physical. Why would this be? Any suggestions on how I can better close? Would appreciate any input any and all input on this. Thanks!
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In a city of 4-5 million, how many girls do you think sign up for Tinder, Bumble and Hinge everyday? In big cities is it an infinite pool?
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