Inviting Girls to Your Place from Tinder/Bumble/Hinge
Anyone here have success with inviting girls directly to your place from apps? You'd think every girl that comes over is DTF, but in my experience that's not always the case. Is this true for anyone else?
Last year and earlier this year (pre-pandemic), I had a good run with inviting girls straight over. At least half the girls who came over ended with a makeout/BJ/smash.
In the past two months, I've had four girls who came directly to my place from Tinder and Bumble (age 32, 29, 34, 31) . All four girls came directly to my apartment. One spent the night. None resulted in bangs.
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ls the pandemic is contributing to girls less inclined to engage in "risky" behavior?
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Is it age? This year, the girls who came over were in the 29-34 range. Last year, most girls who came over were 22-28. I figured any who'd come straight over to my place would be a done deal - irrespective of age. However, it seems many early 30s women will come over yet won't do anything physical. Why would this be?
Any suggestions on how I can better close? Would appreciate any input any and all input on this. Thanks!
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Yeah man. I've had girls who come straight over who I don't bang. But those should be the exception, not the norm. A chick who sleeps over should 99% be a lay. Their are some things to increase your closing ration. First, is simply whipping your dick out and jerking off. You would do if things are heating up but she's hesitant to go past making out. This has worked extremely well for me in the past. Because the girl basically sees your gonna cum without her, so she's the only one missing out on the fun. Obviously, if the chick reacts negatively, then you want to stop. However, I've literally never had that happen. Secondly, logically figure out what is holding her out and dealing with her underlying concern or objection.