Timmy, if you're still looking for a wing in London hit me up.

I feel your pain bro. It shouldn’t matter but the reality is that it can set dates off on an awkward footing. A few suggestions.

Find a bar that serves non alcoholic beer - it looks the same, tastes the same, and a lot of the 0% branding these days is pretty subtle. If it isn’t, have it poured into a glass. Another option is ordering a tonic with a wedge of lime. Mocktails are worth considering but often have suspect names and even worse colours/garnish.

For any of this to work you need to sit somewhere away from where you order and pick up the drinks tab all night. A small price to pay if the date’s worth it. Hope it works out.