So the back story is, I met this girl from a cold approach at a night club. We bantered for about a good 20 minutes and than made out with each other. I set up a date with her during the cold approach to have a glass of wine the next day before I ended up leaving the set. I texted her the next day and tried confirming for the date. When I tried going for the date she gave me resistance. I probably should have pushed and challenged her frame but I didn’t know how without coming off as needy. I than tried setting up other times with her and she kept giving me resistance. The last form of resistance she gave me was she was taking a break from men because she got out of a shitty relationship which I didn’t know how to respond to because Alex never gave a response to this type of objection. I remember Alex said when getting the girl to fall in your frame you have to get her to question her assumption, but I didn’t know how to do that since she already gave me a solid reason of why she couldn’t meet. My first question is did I come off to pushy trying to get the meet up, did I need to pull back more? Another question I had was, how can I get her to fall in my frame at this point without coming off pushy or try hard, because I don’t what else to say. And my last question was when you set a date with them in person do you skip the banter and having to soft close stage and just get the point or do you have to go through that all over again through text?