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Following the rule of thumb for following up with this girl after she didn’t respond to a soft close attempt. Was just curious if anyone sees any mess ups at all.

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I followed up after no response for three days after cold approaching her and she got back to me right away. Not sure if this is a shit test/tongue in cheek or if she is just looking for attention. But what would be the best way to respond to this?

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Just wanted to get others guys perspective on the average percentage of having sex with a girl on the first date. Seems like most of the time I don’t see them again if we don’t hookup on the first date. Am I giving off fuck boy vibes in their point of view?

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Pulled this girl back to my place after our first date, we were making out and touching a lot but she was pretty hard on not having sex on the first date. Should I text today to set up the next date or wait a few days?

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Should I just push for another day since she said “another time”?

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I asked this girl what her schedule was a couple days ago and she got back to me after I double texted with “don’t think too hard now” she is say this week is crazy and we may have to do next week. Which is probably an excuse, should I push for this week still?

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Had a good back and forth going with this girl I met yesterday. Soft closed for the date and asked when she’s free. Then she didn’t respond. Seems like a “don’t be shy” would be the best way to go from what I’ve learned in this group. Should I wait longer than 24hrs since we just met yesterday?

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Met this girl during daygame, gave her a kiss on the cheek when I left and she came back with this. What should I do, did my response turn her off?

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I soft closed this girl kinda early in the text interaction. She isn’t investing a lot through text, how should I pursue this going forward?

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