This website has deleted my reply 2 times not :/

Anyway I'm not really a pro at infield or cold approach but just don't think too hard it's gonna fuck with your vibe. Just go in smile, have fun, even voice tone, eye contact but not a weird amount and you should be fine.

If you need your buddies to go, just tell them when you walk by that you'll catch up and open her.

Can I borrow a light.

Im __ , What's your name

I don't smoke, but you're actually cute and I thought it be funny to steal your light for a second

Haha

False time constraints* I actually have to go here in a min. But what's your story

Vibe

Number close.. talking to you doesn't suck, this was fun we should continue it. What's your number

Look up boyfriend objections just incase

If you did a good job Vibing she's not going to say all that. And if she does say something like where are you off to that'd a positive bc she's trying to keep the conversation going instead of being like finally he's don't talking to me

Shes not going to (at least not the first time you approach her. Thats like a first date topic)... but if she asks about living arrangements and you don't want to say mother basement, I'd probably just lie tbh lol something like it's super temporary just moved back from college and still getting my living situation sorted. Something like that

If she does say something you could just say I only had a min, I have to get back to work/friends waiting on me. I actually work right over there.. or some joke about getting back to saving children from fires

I'd accept in a way that makes her know you want to see her before this

"Sure as long as we have our first date before then, have to make sure your not a 400lbs black man ;)"

"Sure but we'll need to meet up sometime soon to see if you have more good tastes.. can't be seen with a weirdo ;)"

Or just logical
"that seems fun for like a 3rd date lol don't want to have to talk over the speakers getting to know you"

I think a funny way that I would break the ice..

Hey you got a lighter

Hand you lighter

"I actually don't smoke but you're cute and I thought it be funny to steal your lighter for a min"

Her response.. if it's flirty and she ask for her lighter back say your not done usingnit

"I actually have to go in a min but you seem like you may be interesting what's your story.. you single, from around here?"

"Hey i have to get back it was fun talking to you, what's your number so we can do it again "

You should add your own flavor to it but Something like that

You may be over thinking it. It's not that big of a deal imo..
Unless she left you on read for like a day and then you sent that then it may be slightly different

Lol she's flaking 🤷‍♂️

Eh I try to stay active and there is a few others that hang around too. But I'm not sure how active it used to be

... I ended up texting her this morning hey trouble she said hehe hey 😊

So assuming she's not flakey date should happen tonight

Sweet update us and let us know how the date went

Assuming we have chemistry I just might ;)