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So I have been talking to this girl for a while, good banter, even sexualizing some texts, but every time I tried to push for the soft close she would completely shut it down by responding simply "no" However, after getting tired of this, I hit her with a takeaway "look i've been trying to see you for a while now but every time i bring it up you keep deflecting so let me know if you are actually interesting in meeting up or i'm done trying" To which she finally agreed to go out and we made initial plans for Friday and then I didn't text her for 2 days or so until Friday. Friday rolls up, I open her up, and then ask about if we are still good for tonight, she says she forgot about it, she has to get her nails done but offers to still see me after her nails appointment. I decline, as it was kinda late and messing with the rest of my schedule so I countered with Saturday instead. But, she is meeting her sister on Saturday, and she offers for Sunday instead, to which I agree and we leave it for Sunday. I don't text her until Sunday morning, when I open up again. She is ok, tell her the time and location and she says "alrightđŸ«Ą" But then, not even an hour later she flakes "hey, sadly something came up and we'll have to reschedule. maybe we'll go out another time" Now here is where i think i messed up because i replied with "you're breaking my heart NAME" and she left me on read. I don't know what to do at this point. I am thinking of waiting a day or two and then calling her out like "i didn't take you for the flakey type" because I don't think her excuse was real, i think she just got too nervous and anxious as she did tell me she had problems like that.

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So i have been talking to this girl for about a week and it was going well. I think vibe was fun and flirty, but every time i try to slowly push for a close "i can show you on our date" or "we can discuss that when we go out" texts like that, she just completely shuts them down by saying simply "no". No to the idea of going out, that she is anxious, that she doesn't trust men, she doesn't like going out etc. And I am feeling mixed signals because she also sent me cute selfies of her in a big cleavage, or sent suggestive memes and I think I might have been a bit too eager to respond to those. Anyway I don't know how to proceed. I'm thinking about either pulling away completely with something like "look i've been trying to meet you for a while now but you keep dismissing it so if you're just not interested let me know and i'll stop". Or suggesting a very casual no pressure 10-15 minute walk around the block.

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I got some better photos than the ones I had and need some help deciding which 4-5 of them to choose. As for bio, Im in a religious eastern european country so I cant go sexual: 1.88 | 6’2 Deep voice but can’t say R In 3rd grade at 8 yo I committed 3 crimes in a single day

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She has been kinda low investment lately, non responsive repeatedly and after some mild takeaways i used "look, if you're not into this just lmk and i can stop trying" To which she replied "i don't have time and energy honestly, no offense, tomorrow i leave town for work anyway so it's for the best :) " I am glad the takeaway worked and she replied but now i don't know what to do with this, especially if she's leaving tomorrow. Maybe I should wait some time and re-engage her at a later date when she might have less work/be more open?

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Been talking to a girl for a couple of days and she said it's only next week that she'll be back in town. I replied with a soft close "we'll have to sync for our date then" and she said "oh you're already making plans niceeee". I feel like this is said in a sarcastic way or might be a shit test I don't want to look dumb or needy what should I say now I feel stuck a bit?

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So basically the girl is leaving town in a few days, but she agreed to go out tomorrow. Problem is something came up for me and I can't go anymore. But I'd like to keep her for the future because she comes to this city every few months. These were the last messages: Her: that works for me, what you wanna do? Me: fuck, i just got something at work and I'm not sure i can make it Her: it's fine, just chill

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She had a photo with her tongue out and a piercing in the tongue so I opened with that but don't know what to continue. Any help?

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A girl had a photo in the gym doing squats so I opened with that, she replied but then I went a bit more sexual and she still hasn't replied after 1 day. I don't have a sexual bio so did I escalate too soon?

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So I opened a girl on instagram after we liked some photos of eachother and this is how it went. She left me on seen and I don't know what I could've said differently to not be left on seen. Please help...

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I opened a girl on Tinder with a classic " I like your sexy nerd glasses😏" and she replied with " I like you find sexy the fact that I can't see well. I've always wanted that" and I just don't know what to say to this. Any help? I also wear glasses, so I was thinking to say "then we can have bad eyesight together"

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