So i have been talking to this girl for about a week and it was going well. I think vibe was fun and flirty, but every time i try to slowly push for a close "i can show you on our date" or "we can discuss that when we go out" texts like that, she just completely shuts them down by saying simply "no". No to the idea of going out, that she is anxious, that she doesn't trust men, she doesn't like going out etc. And I am feeling mixed signals because she also sent me cute selfies of her in a big cleavage, or sent suggestive memes and I think I might have been a bit too eager to respond to those.

Anyway I don't know how to proceed. I'm thinking about either pulling away completely with something like "look i've been trying to meet you for a while now but you keep dismissing it so if you're just not interested let me know and i'll stop". Or suggesting a very casual no pressure 10-15 minute walk around the block.