Real flake or time waster?
So I have been talking to this girl for a while, good banter, even sexualizing some texts, but every time I tried to push for the soft close she would completely shut it down by responding simply "no"
However, after getting tired of this, I hit her with a takeaway "look i've been trying to see you for a while now but every time i bring it up you keep deflecting so let me know if you are actually interesting in meeting up or i'm done trying"
To which she finally agreed to go out and we made initial plans for Friday and then I didn't text her for 2 days or so until Friday.
Friday rolls up, I open her up, and then ask about if we are still good for tonight, she says she forgot about it, she has to get her nails done but offers to still see me after her nails appointment. I decline, as it was kinda late and messing with the rest of my schedule so I countered with Saturday instead. But, she is meeting her sister on Saturday, and she offers for Sunday instead, to which I agree and we leave it for Sunday.
I don't text her until Sunday morning, when I open up again. She is ok, tell her the time and location and she says "alrightš«”"
But then, not even an hour later she flakes "hey, sadly something came up and we'll have to reschedule. maybe we'll go out another time"
Now here is where i think i messed up because i replied with "you're breaking my heart NAME" and she left me on read.
I don't know what to do at this point. I am thinking of waiting a day or two and then calling her out like "i didn't take you for the flakey type" because I don't think her excuse was real, i think she just got too nervous and anxious as she did tell me she had problems like that.
