Block out faces on any group photos - you def need a close up shot in the meantime. Most ppl scroll super fast

Also, get their phone number, never make plans on the app (she be like “oops! No notifications on the app, sorryyyyyyy). And once you setup the date, say I’ll text you an hour before in case anything comes up. Then, don’t respond until day of saying, “hey just letting you know I’m still good to meet! I’ll let you know if I’m running behind, otherwise see you there”

Yo, this one costs extra, u better write this down cus I don’t let those magic phrases go out to just anyone ;P bread and butter sir

Getting put on read is great- I usually hit them with “hey (her name) :) just checking in - did you still want to meet sometime?” This just happened to me and I didn’t even ask for her number she gave it to me. Again, photos are crucial, they make 99% of this possible. I had another girl say “maybe” to wanting to meet and I just said “let’s do something outside, what your #” and out popped the number. Another girl I asked for number and she said “you think I’m that easy” and I gave her a day then said “but what if we have the best time ever?” Not the best response but she replied and I said “if you want a break from life and wanna have fun let’s grab a quick bite or drink” and then poof I leave it at that. I’m constantly putting her in a position to choose. In sales it’s called urgency, which just means “is now a good time to solve X problem?” And u gotta remember, these girls are on this app to get laid. They were at home horny and said fuck it. I am a damn service provider. Get those photos up, make yourself look like u won’t suck in bed, and report back with phone numbers, cus texting doesn’t get any easier haha. Actually it does, but the games just get harder to solve, but much less energy investment once texting. The app requires way more mental thought. Texting is just getting her to meet up and avoiding pitfalls like “meet me with my girlfriends in the club!” kinda stuff.

Bro, first off, you got everything you need - I can tell your character is legit. So this will be easy. Second off, I used to get the same types of matches and trust me, you just need better photos, and to conceal your value a little better. Here we go:

1. You must get a good headshot of you looking sideways with a subtle smirk or anything not directly looking at the camera with a smile.
2. Also, remove "looking for a relationship." It puts you in a box full of clingy wieners even though you're a legit guy (unless your photos are brad pitt quality).
3. only provide info that trolls getting a response from the girl, you should seriously google "how to write click bait" because we're literally manufacturing "chick bait" (has that been coined yet?)
4. tighten up your photos, try and tell a story, starting with less emotion, and build it up into a funny photo where they learn more about you and what you do.
5. if you aren't a dead sexy guy, don't try and text like a dead sexy guy. this is a very surface game based around your photos, try and instead qualify them
6. try and master closing a date within a few messages max
7. silence is my crowbar tool, if you aren't effectively using silence between messages, you will not last with these girls. I can afford to not respond because I'm busy with other matches/life
8. if necessary, set a timer on your phone and write out your response on in a note
9. ask "wanna meet sometime?" remember, girls want dates, not texts. A common thing I do is say "hi :)" wait two days and say "hey [girls name here] :) just checking in, wanna meet sometime?"
10. never type out "what's your number" i say "what your #" - if they say "not sure" I'll hit them with silence and make them fear I've bounced. Again, silence is a beast, be very careful with it because girls can O.D. on your attention and become fiends if you wax on/wax off correctly.

Ah I feel that. Still though, if I’d known u were going to see her I’d have advised u not text her at all and let her bring it up, and if she didn’t, as I was parting ways, asked what her schedule was like. Texting is the bottom of the barrel regarding logistics. Hope u don’t mind me picking this apart cus I see you like her, but she basically just used texts to find out valuable information about you. She can gauge two things by not responding: 1. whether a man’s happiness is dependent on her actions, and 2. How you manage bad behavior (are you a brick wall vs backboned vs pushover) do you give her padding to make mistakes, essentially. Nobody wants someone to come down on them hard, obviously I can’t say if that’s the case, she may be genuinely busy, but we all want the person who we look up to having. and so I personally choose to take the ‘busy with options’ route but eager to close the gap when necessary. She ain’t going anywhere, that’s the problem. If you guys commit and it goes sour, she has problems on her hands dating a student. It’s a risk she’s taking and may want to see who’s chasing who first. That’s why players rule the land. 0 commitment to fuck up her landscape. But again, she may just be busy and like you. She may be shy about meeting you. That’s the fun part about gray areas, and to be honest I enjoy them a lot more than I did in the past. Otherwise it’s just kinda like... I like you, you like me, done. I welcome the foul play, let her not text, because coloring outside the lines usually is her main defense mechanism to test, and it’s pretty easy to pass that test by just not responding. The rule of thumb for this is “you’re special to me, but I don’t need you”

hard to see zoomed out but this definitely represents quality photos that are realistic and not staged. if anything I'd consolidate best ones and tell a story with them. My favorites will be #2 #3 #7 #8 - smiling isn't bad but it always removes intrigue. Direct eye contact instantly feels weird unless you're looking slightly above the camera lens. Another girl in the profile is fine if it doesn't feel like an ex and you can't see her photos. I'd get a nice head shot that isn't directly looking at the camera and also isn't smiling, a slight smirk is way better than frown. hope that helps sir.

waited 6 days between texts? damn, did the girls stay interested? I usually will wait 1-2 days between texts and I also started heavily incorporating calling girls, which is now my main preference. At first I thought it was a bad idea to call, but just being real here, ish is manly as balls and skips 90% of the games. it's like, why swim in a foot of water when I can just get up and walk to the deep end. lol

I'd have to agree with Eric here but damn can I relate to your situation... many moons ago I was single and NO sex for 4 years straight. the worst part was girls were constantly hitting on me but I had no clue how to bridge to the bedroom. ended up doing a fun long distance relationship and eventually brought them to live with me. but the moment they felt entitled to their "space", all we did was argue, and I went thru a horrible breakup that stung for two years. once that bridge to your bedroom is constructed with beautiful strangers crossing over on YOUR terms... long distance relationships are a thing of the past. is what it is. why run electricity from your car battery into your home when you can tap into the wall outlets. all you gotta do is establish a connection ;-)

omg bro! just ask for the # haha. you lined that ish up perfectly. I'm a little more cut throat about skipping convo. pull her off the apps as soon as possible. text always has much more notification priority than apps, hands down

hi! you def have everything you need to get matches, but because you are fit you will notice a HUGE difference if you get better quality photos

#1. genuine, not staged, only problem is that you're smiling, and weird orange construction cone in background?
#2. your best one hands down. the smirk is key. remember girls will fantasize to your photos, give em what they want
#3. this would be perfect (and might be) except for the hoodie and mirror behind you (it looks like you're slouching)

You seem like the kind of guy who probably has tons of photos, is this true? Let me know if you have any others outdoors