I have what people would say, 0 experience in the dating world. I've been trying to get in, but that's a monumental task despite my best efforts. I've had a single kiss at 26, and most matches die within 2-5 messages. You are the average of the people you hang out with, so maybe you'll rub off on me. I'm hoping that with a little help here I could see some success. I'm getting a few more likes after going through the blueprint, but I only get girls that are older than me, obese, or clearly mentally unstable. I get errors uploading the photos here. So I put them into a drive. https://drive.google.com/drive/folders/1sudf6YPQ2o0kvB6DFdCSJnOhRcIpw6xE?usp=sharing Also in there is a typical text conversation for me. I do not vet that hard sexually. I don't care to have sex on the first date or be casual.
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Bro, first off, you got everything you need - I can tell your character is legit. So this will be easy. Second off, I used to get the same types of matches and trust me, you just need better photos, and to conceal your value a little better. Here we go:
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There's a lot of good stuff here, thanks. The only thing is closing soon. That has only really worked once for me. Every other time, I get left on read or stood up (3 times since January). They go through with agreeing a date and place, the day comes, and poof. I know that probably means I need to get more investment from them earlier on, but still a bit skeptical that it could work for me.
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Also, get their phone number, never make plans on the app (she be like “oops! No notifications on the app, sorryyyyyyy). And once you setup the date, say I’ll text you an hour before in case anything comes up. Then, don’t respond until day of saying, “hey just letting you know I’m still good to meet! I’ll let you know if I’m running behind, otherwise see you there”
Yo, this one costs extra, u better write this down cus I don’t let those magic phrases go out to just anyone ;P bread and butter sir
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Getting put on read is great- I usually hit them with “hey (her name) :) just checking in - did you still want to meet sometime?” This just happened to me and I didn’t even ask for her number she gave it to me. Again, photos are crucial, they make 99% of this possible. I had another girl say “maybe” to wanting to meet and I just said “let’s do something outside, what your #” and out popped the number. Another girl I asked for number and she said “you think I’m that easy” and I gave her a day then said “but what if we have the best time ever?” Not the best response but she replied and I said “if you want a break from life and wanna have fun let’s grab a quick bite or drink” and then poof I leave it at that. I’m constantly putting her in a position to choose. In sales it’s called urgency, which just means “is now a good time to solve X problem?” And u gotta remember, these girls are on this app to get laid. They were at home horny and said fuck it. I am a damn service provider. Get those photos up, make yourself look like u won’t suck in bed, and report back with phone numbers, cus texting doesn’t get any easier haha. Actually it does, but the games just get harder to solve, but much less energy investment once texting. The app requires way more mental thought. Texting is just getting her to meet up and avoiding pitfalls like “meet me with my girlfriends in the club!” kinda stuff.