Got a couple of amazing pics with this cutie at the park, wondering if any of these are profile worthy. My last furry friend pic, the one I CURRENTLY have on my profiles is the only dog that is different lol
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Last reset, I believe I used a new GVoice number, on reset :- Bumble - 5 ish new matches on Day 1, then 1-2 per day from there on out. Hinge - SURPRISINGLY the best, and for the first time ever for hinge too, and was giving me quality good matches with real interactions, say 1-2 per day. But then my account got banned, I assume it was the shirtless pic with the dog that eventually got reported or whatever. I couldn't get it back. This was the BEST streak I have had in an online profile so far, and of course lost all of it when it got deleted. Tinder - Pretty much 0. This reset, used my own personal number that I haven't used in forever, except for Hinge for which I used a friends phone number :- Bumble - 4 matches till now, 2 interactions so far, 2nd day today. Hinge - 0. Doesn't even seem like I am in the pool rn tbh. Not sure what might be the issue. Tinder - 10 MAtches, out of which I swipe matched with 6 or so so far, 2 interactions so far, rest unmatched after openers, 2 seem bots. By next weekend I should have some new headshots and at least one more full-body shot, done by a professional photographer, working on it still. IMGUR - https://imgur.com/a/qbSsaZy
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From bumble to text but it dies out every now and then. Re engaged to move into a date, previously she gave me covid rejection. No other issues in texting, nothing previously was 'cringe'. This is on a sexual profile btw and she previously asked me what I do and has been curious about my sex and life coach profile. I attempted to sexualize conversation to make it more than just logical and platonic. What can be done and learnt from this interaction?
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So unfortunately I do not have screens for the whole things since she unmatched on hinge. Be aware that I have a sexologist/sex coach profile going on here, so she has matched me on that profile. I'm going off of memory. Opener -Hey trouble -Hey how can you already tell -Your eyes speak Volumes -Haha it takes people at least month or two to find that out. What else do they say? -You're fun but far from innocent -Forgt what she said but it was positive here still -I like your style, (then asked something maybe what are you looking for) -Haha my eyes didn't tell you? I'm looking or a relationship but seems like you're not? -Where does it say that? -I forget what she said here, but she prob asked what then -Cool Girlt Chemistry + Kinky Sex & Cuddles -I'm a cool girl -How? -Was born that way -Them pro lawyer/politician answers tho -Haha yeah I'm a pro at those -You a wine or tequila girl? -I'll drink anything you give me -Keep talking dirty baby .... Today I checked and she has unmatched. Now sure, the last line could have seen too sexual maybe, or maybe I think I was missing the ;) . I felt the banter was pretty platonic so far so I wanted to get in some sexualization going in there before going for the wine close. Also ngl, she set that up for me so well I couldn't resist the bait, so I'ma actually not even mad :D Any ideas on what things might be and if there is something to be learnt from this scenario? Also in order to avoid unnecessary sexuallization (if that's even the case here) should I ALWAYS be screening with the "What are you looking for" question to play it safer then?
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Hey Alex and bros, Made a profile on a couple of dating apps recently, and have had some matches so far that I am pursuing. Can you tell me what do you think of these interactions so far, if there's anything I could do to improve them and how to re engage them? 1) Messaging, Got her from Hinge, pretty good banter so far, suggested wine meet, she said yes, but her concern is Covid, which I have just addressed. I was thinking of opening her with a Gosling meme, ask how her day is going and then attempt another close with "all this sanitizer isn't gonna use itself you know?" 2) Whatsapp one, this girl superliked me from an app like a month ago, I never check it so I just got back to her 2 days ago, number closed, but she has been giving close to zero investment. So I decided to cooldown and re-engage later. Now she had a DP before, but not anymore so it may be possible she deleted me, (which is totally fine if she's that crazy) , but I was thinking of opening her with the Gosing meme tomorrow and then banter and go for another wine close. 3) Hinge, you see the entire interaction, decent banter but mostly platonic so decided to sexualize at the end, and since then nothing else yet. Again was thinking Gosling and wine close tomorrow. Thoughts, constructive critique and recommendations?
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Got a bunch of new pics with a selfie stick and just going solo. If you find a certain couple of pics are better than others can you please tell me why? Shortlisted these from about 200+ https://imgur.com/a/HVxHymu
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Can I learn anything from this interaction that I'm doing good or bad? History - Cold approached in gym. Never followed up besides platonic talk until this exchange, because she just seemed super cold. She seemed receptive here but don't know what to make of this interaction or if there's something there that can be explored or not. If I reopen her how do I?
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Trying to learn from my previous approaches and successes and not so much about how and where I am going wrong and what I could improve upon. She opened me through Bumble, was highly invested initially, we even had a good Video chat before all of this. Couldn't meet instantly because of Covid and she was having exams.
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