Help me understand this unmactch please.
So unfortunately I do not have screens for the whole things since she unmatched on hinge.
Be aware that I have a sexologist/sex coach profile going on here, so she has matched me on that profile.
I'm going off of memory.
Opener
-Hey trouble
-Hey how can you already tell
-Your eyes speak Volumes
-Haha it takes people at least month or two to find that out. What else do they say?
-You're fun but far from innocent
-Forgt what she said but it was positive here still
-I like your style, (then asked something maybe what are you looking for)
-Haha my eyes didn't tell you? I'm looking or a relationship but seems like you're not?
-Where does it say that?
-I forget what she said here, but she prob asked what then
-Cool Girlt Chemistry + Kinky Sex & Cuddles
-I'm a cool girl
-How?
-Was born that way
-Them pro lawyer/politician answers tho
-Haha yeah I'm a pro at those
-You a wine or tequila girl?
-I'll drink anything you give me
-Keep talking dirty baby
.... Today I checked and she has unmatched.
Now sure, the last line could have seen too sexual maybe, or maybe I think I was missing the ;) . I felt the banter was pretty platonic so far so I wanted to get in some sexualization going in there before going for the wine close.
Also ngl, she set that up for me so well I couldn't resist the bait, so I'ma actually not even mad :D
Any ideas on what things might be and if there is something to be learnt from this scenario?
Also in order to avoid unnecessary sexuallization (if that's even the case here) should I ALWAYS be screening with the "What are you looking for" question to play it safer then?

393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)
Most likely your last text triggered her. However it wasn't necessarily bad. Vast majority would laugh at that given this context. I wouldn't put any thought into a random girl unmatching you here and there. It's only worth looking into it if it's a pattern