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Working with a guy on texting and dating and still struggling to get Matches. Lucky to get 1 a day on hinge, it's usually 0, maybe 1 a day on bumble. 1-2 a day on okcupid. Currently not really using tinder. How are the photos. The last photo is me camping. With the caption just chilling. Please only comment if you get over 5 matches a day. I doubt, I am shadowbanned.
33 Posts (+3), 42 Cmts (+8)
Cross-posted from the Facebook page. Could use some advice on closing number from here. I tried to close, but it was not the smoothest and she wanted to talk more on the app. Continued, banter and sexualization. Got to the point where I am trying to move her to text again, to more comfortably solidify plans, might not have been as clear as I wanted to be connecting the role-playing with switching to text on that last message The things I am worried about is was the reclose too soon, making me seem needy and lack of her seeing the message due to it being further down her queue Should I follow up and ignore the close I did and just create plans over on the app or continue the number close? Also I know I might have to deal with a distance objection, that will be solved later though. (Offered booty massage lol)
33 Posts (+3), 42 Cmts (+8)
Girl sent what might be a shit test. I feel that my response to her message was not strong enough, maybe a bit too wordy as well. How do I get around this and recover the conversation. I got some advice from the Facebook group, for the last message. The possible line I have are "sound like a plan?" Both pings and leads her to answer. However it might be too direct and low value.
33 Posts (+3), 42 Cmts (+8)
I already posted on the Facebook page, but I wanted to cross-post here. Trying to make plans with this girl, it seems she likes the wine part but doesn't want a ONS. I visit the area fairly regularly (5-8 times, a year). So once a month or month and a half. Here is my ideas "when did I say I only wanted a one night stand" I can also add "I actually visit the area fairly regularly" (am there mostly due to family) Everything in parentheses is explanation to you all and not part of the message.
33 Posts (+3), 42 Cmts (+8)
Texted this girl. Getting pretty massive investment. Not sure if there is enough normal conversation though. Is it too early for a wine close? Also I feel that I need a transition here. Thinking something something small like "cool", or "ill have to see them in person, to give you my favorite" and then trying to wine close. Also I cant meet this girl for several weeks as I won't be in her area till then. I believe her archetype is Feminine/Cutesy, can someone confirm based on the way she messages.
33 Posts (+3), 42 Cmts (+8)
So I am trying to keep this girl warm as I can't meet with her due to me being in different states for a few weeks to a month. I am returning to my home state over a weekend so trying to plan for then. I dont think bad logistics will be as big a problem though. I am trying to oscillate between flirty and just normal text due to the length of time and try to just have her comes over. I told a white lie about the career. I do write, but I do not write erotica. How do I get around that when she asks. Also how far in advance would it be good to plan? I would probably only be there from late evening Friday to Sunday afternoon.
33 Posts (+3), 42 Cmts (+8)
I am trying to improve my profile and took a bunch of pictures and enhanced them using Remini. I would appreciate insight into how to improve the photos if and when I retake them. The last 4 pictures are my current pictures which get almost no success outside of Okcupid which gets some attention, but have not been able to close successfully yet. (Mainly tried Tinder, a bit of Bumble and Okcupid) I am planning to add in a picture of me doing martial arts soon and update it as I continue to get into better shape. I would love some input also on the bio and if you should put your interests. Unfortunately, I am having trouble creating a congruent bio even after watching and reading the videos and articles you have on the subject. I am aware I have a hard time keeping my eyes open a ton which also impact the photos
33 Posts (+3), 42 Cmts (+8)
As the title sais, I am messaging this girl and need to keep her on a simmer. Also how should I do that in general. Could be a topic that I dont believe @avilench . has discussed yet. I won't be returning to her location for at least a few weeks to 2 months. The girl didn't seem in for the frame which is why I adjusted and went less sexual. Am either planning to build on the we frame or go the basics route tattoos etc.
33 Posts (+3), 42 Cmts (+8)
