So I am trying to keep this girl warm as I can't meet with her due to me being in different states for a few weeks to a month. I am returning to my home state over a weekend so trying to plan for then. I dont think bad logistics will be as big a problem though.

I am trying to oscillate between flirty and just normal text due to the length of time and try to just have her comes over. I told a white lie about the career. I do write, but I do not write erotica. How do I get around that when she asks. Also how far in advance would it be good to plan? I would probably only be there from late evening Friday to Sunday afternoon.