Girl sent what might be a shit test. I feel that my response to her message was not strong enough, maybe a bit too wordy as well. How do I get around this and recover the conversation. I got some advice from the Facebook group, for the last message.
The possible line I have are "sound like a plan?" Both pings and leads her to answer. However it might be too direct and low value.
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If i am not totally wrong, she seems dtf. ( previous convo would help a bit here)
''(insert name) you know that we are going to have fun either way š'' or you just ignore her question and go with ''so how does your schedule look ?''
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@Dude Dudesen. I included the screenshots. Whats your thoughts with that. I know I could probably have built up some more excitement off of the shower. Live and learn.
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in general I don't hate your response.
There were three opportunities that you missed I think since it is clear she is DTF since I have never interacted with a girl who brought up getting out of a shower on her that wasn't trying to have sex.
If she says she can't tonight then you move into the soft close for that week.
I also think instead of saying "what's your drink of choice" you should have used Alex's line "no worries, I'll make you a amazing Shirly Temple, what's your schedule like this week?"
But if you want a direct response to what you said, I would have said "let's see how the vibe is and let things play out naturally. No expectations on my end." which is close to what you wrote anyways.
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I tried your message. In regards to your points, I was not sure how much she was agreeing to the submissive frame. The other two yes I could have played off differently.