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I've been on 5 dates with this chick (matched on August last year), there are good vibes and connection between us and it's not just a hookup up thing. I can tell she's very excited to hang out with me. Whenever I ask for a hangout sesh, she's always down, and her schedule is always free. During our last hangout, she made a hint of what I should do for her during her bday which is on Feb 3rd - book a room with petals on the floor and bed, with champagne etc. Of course, she said it in a fun way. Now I am not going to do this because it sounds a bit too much, but I think she's telling me that she would like to hang out with me on her bday. I enjoy hanging out with her and so far, she has checked all my categories for an ideal gf. However, I don't want to move into a relationship very quickly or give her the impression that I am asking for a relationship because I think that would ruin the dynamic that we have. My question is this: Is getting her a gift on her bday and Valentine's day too much?

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Convo was good, she’s receptive, went for the close and this happened... check SC. Should I say “Solution?” Or do you have any other suggestions

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We started talking on Nov 28th. But She had a loss in her family so I didn’t push for a date for a month but I did a small contact every two weeks. What should I say/do to continue this? Check the screen shot

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We matched on tinder and I got her number. I went for the soft close but she brushed it off. Basically I think when she asked for my insta, she’s not 100% sure of my pictures on tinder and need more reassurance. Anyways I’m thinking of leaving the msg as is and Reengage in 2 days with “Hey stranger” or “Hey you”. But if she initiate before that then continue convo and set up a date. What are your thoughts on how I should proceed?

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I might be thinking too hard on this but I want to get y’all inputs. I’ve been on three dates with this girl, and it’s always a fun time, and over the dates she is becoming more open/comfortable with me. We’ve only had sex once - on our last date last Tuesday. However, I seem to be the only one initiating contact/setting up dates, but when I do she’s very receptive and down to hang out. Now it’s been only three dates so I think it might be too early for her to be initiating contact/setting up dates because girls do take a while before they get completely comfortable with a guy. Moving forward, I don’t want to establish the fact that I should be the only one setting up dates because I think it shows that I’m too needy. I’ve decided to give her a one week no contact with her (this plan is ending tmr) to see if she’d initiate contact but I doubt this is going to work because she is heading out of town for the rest of the week. What are you guys advice to this? How long should I keep initiating contact? Should I keep doing what I’m doing i.e initiating contact/setting up date? I’d appreciate any thought

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I can't post screenshots because I haven't opened the message yet. I slid into this girl's dm on insta. We had a good convo and eventually, I went for the close. I asked when she's down to split a bottle of wine, she said it's busy for her this time of the year and she's not sure about her schedule. (Makes sense. For some reason ladies are always busy this time of the year). Anyways I said "Np. I'm sure our love can survive. let's move to text." And I proceeded to give her my number and told her to "text me". She ended up liking my message. I waited 2 days and got no message from her, so I double texted on insta with "it's okay we can use emails if that's what you are into" she just replied "Anticipation can be fun thooo" I'm definitely giving her a hard spanking for this behavior when we meet up. Anyways what's a good reply to this?? Appreciate any thoughts & comments.

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Me: Are you still down for Sunday? (This is me reconfirming the plans that we have set on Sunday) Her: Yeah for now lol I think this is equivalent to a "maybe". What would be a good response to this? I'm thinking "You don't sound confident" Let me know what you think

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Date was planned on Sunday for today(Saturday), I messaged on Wednesday to reconfirm, but was left with the last message. I opened again on Friday to confirm but haven’t heard back. Should I double/triple text? (See the image)

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Just watched Alex’s video on “How to message any girl from opener to date” What are some screening questions you guys use on girls via text?

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Little context here... I’m trying to set a date. I picked a wine she said she doesn’t like it I replied with “oh I’m sure we can still have a fun time with a glass of milk”, I double texted with “if you’re into that sort of thing” after 2 days.... check the pic for the rest. I’m thinking of saying “Funny! What’s your schedule like?” - This just moves the convo forward, instead of talking about something silly What do you think about my reply? Any other reply and reason behind it? (So I know what to do next time or in a similar situation)

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