Should i get her something for her bday and valentine?? Help me out please
14 Posts (+2), 21 Cmts (+10)
I've been on 5 dates with this chick (matched on August last year), there are good vibes and connection between us and it's not just a hookup up thing. I can tell she's very excited to hang out with me. Whenever I ask for a hangout sesh, she's always down, and her schedule is always free.
During our last hangout, she made a hint of what I should do for her during her bday which is on Feb 3rd - book a room with petals on the floor and bed, with champagne etc. Of course, she said it in a fun way. Now I am not going to do this because it sounds a bit too much, but I think she's telling me that she would like to hang out with me on her bday.
I enjoy hanging out with her and so far, she has checked all my categories for an ideal gf. However, I don't want to move into a relationship very quickly or give her the impression that I am asking for a relationship because I think that would ruin the dynamic that we have.
My question is this: Is getting her a gift on her bday and Valentine's day too much?
3 Posts (+1), 24 Cmts (+5)
If she wants to see you on her birthday I would give her a small gift but otherwise no. And if you are gonna hangout on Valentines i wouldnt give her a gift, I would just arrange a nice date.

90 Posts (+21), 349 Cmts (+123)
I probably wouldn’t get her anything if you didn’t already tell her you were going to. Gifts should be given to your significant other, not someone you’re unsure about/someone who you’ve been casually seeing (who knows she may be seeing other people as much as you, you wouldn’t wanna be the only one getting her gifts
14 Posts (+2), 21 Cmts (+10)
Alright thanks for the input