I have been out of the game for a while, just returned and this is one of my first matches (Text is translated) [Tinder] Her: You're a bit of an angel Hansi Me: Haha thanks, I haven't heard that one before. What makes you say that? Her: You just look like someone who treats people right Me: Always, it's free to be nice, but you seem like someone I would treat better (She hearts this msg) Her: Do you have any tats since you write about it in your bio? Me: Yes, a little cute one Her: omg cute Her: What is it? Me: You almost have to do the honors of guessing: it's a character from a trio from a cartoon Her: POWERPUFFGIRLS Me: Haha yup, the green one Her: omg that is so cute Me: You have to see it in real life at some point (She hearts this msg) Me: What about you, any tats or plans for it? Her: I have 2 I made myself, but they are pretty ugly haha Her: But have lots of plans to get some real Me: haha live and learn i guess, do tell about your plans Her: Have more of an overall picture of what it should look like. It should be symmetrical and probably not realistic. Thinking of a few large pieces, otherwise some silly little ones haha Me: Awesome. I'm really surprised how few people have a holistic view, well-palced tattoos can really emphasize the natural beauty of the body Her: Exactly! I feel like it's a lot about how it should fit on my particular body. Me: To be honest (girl's name), you seem to have exactly the energy, personality and style I'm looking for. I think we should plan a date sometime Her: I love your confidence so much Her: I'm in Me: Send me your number and we'll plan something Her: ##### [Over text....] Me: Hey, Hansi from that thing Her: Heyo [15 min later] Her: I just realized that you have the same name as my older brother Me: Haha, then you'll have to come up with a nickname Her: That's a good idea Me: I can see you don't exactly live close by, so the question is whether you're up for coming here at some point or we need to find another alternative Her: I can come to (city) one day, it's not too far from where I live Her: In what area do u live Me: (area) around (thing) [All this was in on night]. [Next evening] Me: Did you hope for a different answer? Her: Oh shit sorry, not used to writing via text message Her: Nej! Her: (City) is completly fine Me: haha fair enough, you'll just have to make it up to me on the date Me: Do you drink wine? Her: i don't drink alcohol haha Me: That's fine too. Then I have 3 suggestions, we can keep it simple and just share a bottle of (children's drink) at my place, take a trip to the (shopping area near me) or go to a café Her: hmm (thinking emoji) i think suggestion 1 or 2 sound very nice Me: Aight, then we will go to (the shopping area) and if we vibe we can just go to my place afterwards Her: perfect (sunglass emoji) Me: What does your schedule look like? [next day in the evening] Me: And the award for best texter goes to... Her: Shit sorry, my phone is always on silent Her: maybe next week? Her: It will probably have to be a weekend Me: And it doesn't work this weekend? [Next day evening] Her: No, unfortunately I'm quite booked this weekend Me: Busy girl, what days would u suggest then? Her: Either Friday next week or maybe Saturday or Sunday. I'll think about it tomorrow and figure out which day is best. Of course, if you are available on those days [Next morning] Me: Super, do that, I think you're just sweet enough for me to move some things around, so we'll make it fit that weekend [4 days later - still a week out from the weekend shes free] Me: Yo sexy [No respons]. Reading these texts over i think it's really salvageable, i just feel rusty and i actually got quite frustrated by the fact that we spend like 4 days just trying the find a day shes free also - "yo sexy" proberbly wasn't very optimal, should have just follow up instead of waiting 4 days and asked if she found the free day My nuclear option right now is going with the "I didn't take u for the flaky type" but I think I want to do one more takeaway before that - I'm open to any suggestions, opinions or advice [Update] Me: Look if you are too nervous i'd understand [No respons]