I texted to confirm the date tonight and she said, she has a lot of coursework to do, any chance I can come up to her? She lives 20 min away. Idk if she wants to meet at a bar near there or at her place. I didn't respond yet. I just don't want to waste my time cause I heard if she's not invested enough to come to you then it's probably not a good move. What do you think I should say?
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https://www.bestpuatraining.com/push-pull
That's a kind of explanation. But like I said, don't over think it. A lot of guys can get caught up in like "Should I pull here? Am I pushing too much? Should I?" It gets weird. I guess I brought it up because someone may suggest it. But as far as I'm concerned, if you're down, and she's down: get it.
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Okay cool thanks! Also thanks for the website. I've seen people mention PUA and never knew what that meant. I'll explore more on that page and check out other tips
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Yeah, np. Here's one last article one the concept where they contextualize it in terms of a "tension loop": https://www.pualingo.com/the-concept-of-push-and-pull/
Put it in your back pocket. Might even be handy when a girl does it to you!