Response help
536 Posts (+164), 850 Cmts (+529)
Should I still say “I’ll get the wine and massage oil ready”
I don’t want to make it sound like I’m trying to give her a foot massage
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0 Posts (+0), 101 Cmts (+59)
Get her to invest into the idea more. "And wine of course"
536 Posts (+164), 850 Cmts (+529)
Do you think it would be bad to say “I’ll get the wine and massage oil ready”
0 Posts (+0), 101 Cmts (+59)
No, it just doesn't really 'require' her to invest there as you've already sort of laid it out. Technically it's a soft close, but it's also a hard close because she will need to consciously agree and the last thing you want is for her to logically talk hersself out of it. Considering her investment has been relatively low
12 Posts (+9), 229 Cmts (+105)
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“I’ll give you one. That will be 9.95” (comedy response but still effective)
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“Yeah, Get them looking nice for your onlyfans shoot” (lead it in a sexual direction. I’d use this one if you tryna fuck as soon as possible)
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“I’ll see to that you’re taken care of. Calling my foot guy over to your place rn” (most lovey dovey romantic response. Demonstrates in a jokey way that you care/ building a genuine vibe with her. Darkest path to go down if you plan on just fucking her so use your morals here)
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I’m focusing on building genuine investment rn. I’m not tryna be Mr game mr fuck rn and I’m not giving half assed boring investment like “oh I work here and I love this blah blah blah” type shit that a lot of guys call investment. That’s good investment if you want to bore the girl and not move it forward at the same time.
0 Posts (+0), 101 Cmts (+59)
While I agree with your observation of 90% of dudes building 0 investment, I don't necessarily agree on your ways. I like the first and third text you sent, but it doesn't really lead you anywhere. The idea behind them is solid, sure, but that goes out the window if she doesn't go with it..
12 Posts (+9), 229 Cmts (+105)
That's the point of investment. If you do it right she will lead it for you. You're mistaking the girl leading it as it not being led anywhere, this is false. If you invest correctly a girl will be drawn to you so much that she will fill in the blanks for you. Think on it. I feel like you're trying to hide what you really want to say because DUHH lol, if the girl doesn't go with what you send it "goes out the window" (I honestly dont agree with that dumb idea but nevertheless) Same goes for any text ever. Its about sending the best texts and humbly that's what I like to give.
393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)
"Oh nop. Not risking to be kicked in the face. Back and shoulders it is"
12 Posts (+9), 229 Cmts (+105)
I love the last text you sent. Rare I compliment on here lol
536 Posts (+164), 850 Cmts (+529)
Thanks, which one?
12 Posts (+9), 229 Cmts (+105)
im slow i didnt realize it was two pics. The last msg on the first pic (future husband line). Good thing i didnt give advice then