Should I still say “I’ll get the wine and massage oil ready” I don’t want to make it sound like I’m trying to give her a foot massage

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No, it just doesn't really 'require' her to invest there as you've already sort of laid it out. Technically it's a soft close, but it's also a hard close because she will need to consciously agree and the last thing you want is for her to logically talk hersself out of it. Considering her investment has been relatively low

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Okay I will go with your second suggestion. Was also thinking “How about a full body massage to really ease all those nerves”
Might be too much huh?

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I'd say use your response with the full body so she doesn't, for some odd reason, assume you'll actually give her a foot massage with wine. Then go for the wine part

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That's a good one too. Of your responses, I think that's the best one if you want to go that route

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