I can't take the flaking anymore. I've had it
44 Posts (+21), 550 Cmts (+363)
Hours of my life I'll never get back. Over 2 months of conversation, legit adding value to her life with travel tips she asked for and used, multiple soft close agreements and the two dates, planned days in advance, both flaked at 5:30 pm day of. I'm fuckin exhausted.
Edit: I Unmatched this piece of shit human
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Ur planning dates out on hinge 😂😂😂 tf u expect
44 Posts (+21), 550 Cmts (+363)
Yeah, I still don't get why some here think texting is better than dating apps for a first date. Its equally as easy to block a number texting as it is unmatching on OLD
44 Posts (+21), 550 Cmts (+363)
Ok I'm gonna go on another rant here but maybe it will also be constructive because we've gotta figure out this "investment" idea and also the right amount of time and investment before soft closing. I'm feeling angsty at this PWF consensus of "just be a man about it bro, just be alpha bro, just see it as an opportunity to demonstrate to her that you're alpha bro, don't whine about it bro man up..." Ok you're not totally wrong, but goddamn it this is time of my life i will never get back and im getting older, my time is genuinely important and precious to me. Yes I did go out by myself last night and had a good time, did some networking, made some people laugh etc (I'm foremost a Julien student) so it's never a total loss with the right attitude...not that my attitude was right at all as Jan noticed before i deleted, I'm just getting so right wing I'll be falling off the pier, how about an immigration moratorium SERIOUSLY come visit but go the fuck home, im not a parasite on your native country...but back to my point, I could have scheduled a first date with other women and those are MISSED OPPORTUNITIES I WILL NEVER GET BACK and lord knows how much time i/we actually have left.
Feedback welcome to this rant, as for what I deleted please lay off, I admit i was angry and some things I wrote were wrong thus I deleted them.
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It’s hard out there for us guys right now. I’m having the same issue. I’m sorry brother, this shit is the hardest part. I’ve been telling myself that it only takes 1 yes. You’re part of the .01% thought who keep going despite this always happening and that speaks volumes about the kind of man you are. Feel free to DM me if you wanna talk man. 👊
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Im calling u out bro thats a messed up way of thinking "go back to ur 3rd world shithole bitch" come on, be better.
Nobody owes u anything in life, shes in the wrong for flaking but just move on like a man.. dont insult her on here. Its fine if u wanna post and vent about it but not in this way. My advice is why text her for over 2 months without meeting up? I get u were prob both busy but thats still such a long time. Go for a close ASAP, if u text her for a long time she thinks "well i already got his attention and validation over text so meeting up in person isnt a priority"