Hours of my life I'll never get back. Over 2 months of conversation, legit adding value to her life with travel tips she asked for and used, multiple soft close agreements and the two dates, planned days in advance, both flaked at 5:30 pm day of. I'm fuckin exhausted. Edit: I Unmatched this piece of shit human
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Im calling u out bro thats a messed up way of thinking "go back to ur 3rd world shithole bitch" come on, be better.
Nobody owes u anything in life, shes in the wrong for flaking but just move on like a man.. dont insult her on here. Its fine if u wanna post and vent about it but not in this way. My advice is why text her for over 2 months without meeting up? I get u were prob both busy but thats still such a long time. Go for a close ASAP, if u text her for a long time she thinks "well i already got his attention and validation over text so meeting up in person isnt a priority"
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You're right. I was pissed off. I still am honestly. I deleted that comment about 15 minutes before you wrote that but I guess you saw it before and wanted to respond. It's getting political, but it's fucked up that women can come to the USA from countries where they literally get the physical shit kicked out of them, then treat American men like shit and be spoiled entitled princesses hiding behind USA male law enforcement officers as their human shields. I have to process these negative emotions and let go of the charge around them, I agree. But that's how I honestly feel. I traveled in dozens of countries and I didn't glom on and take advantage of their policies, I went home after.
Yes, both of us were traveling in there amongst those 2 months, so not sure what the lesson is. I built massive investment and it was just a waste of my (and her) time.
Edit: "Go for a close ASAP, if u text her for a long time she thinks "well i already got his attention and validation over text so meeting up in person isnt a priority" is good advice thanks Jan.