How do I keep this conversation from getting more platonic

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I want to soft close. But the investment is one sided and like most of my conversations it's turning into an interview. What do I do?

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P

9 Posts (+7), 142 Cmts (+72)

Full stop. Change the topic.
“Nerdy girl with magic hands, interesting 😏”.
Or just
“Do you like wine?”

You need to get out of this thread

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27 Posts (+2), 37 Cmts (+2)

This was what I said and the response. Looks like a good soft close, but unfortunately she's under 21 and I don't have a place of my own so i have to stick with more "platonic" date ideas

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P

9 Posts (+7), 142 Cmts (+72)

Keep moving it forward. Still not ready for the hard close. Ask her if she likes wine, if you want a wine date or cocktails or whatever.

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avilench . Avatar

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"Nice. Perhaps you can build us an automatic tequila dispenser which plays corny corny 90's songs on repeat"

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27 Posts (+2), 37 Cmts (+2)

You know how to make these lines man.

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K

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Bro you have already killed the sexual vibe from this whole conversation.

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D

27 Posts (+2), 37 Cmts (+2)

I'm not good at flirting and sexting. What would you do differently?

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Clinton Woodall Avatar

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You are still too logical and honest in your thought process with texting girls. Remember they matched you because you’re attractive to them, you can almost say anything outside the norm as long as it’s not beyond offensive or boring. PB gave you a great example of how to Segway into a more fun convo

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