Hey. So, I matched with a chick on Tinder, and I was following an advice vid that was on the Playing With Fire channel. I asked if she was free tomorrow night and got no response. Did I go in too strong or no? Let me know.
Also, yes I’m new here. I wanna improve my text game, and I’ve had 2 successful dates in the past. 1 turned into a relationship that lasted a month.
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I’d just wait a day or two and say “If you’re nervous I’d understand”
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Good strategy. I’ll give it a day and see what happens. In the meantime, I got better things to do.
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That was just a poor soft close. You should gave asked the evenings she was free next. Take a look at some of the videos on guides on texting on the yt and my free website
20 Posts (+26), 146 Cmts (+86)
Bro. Game is too platonic & boring. Also, close is suboptimal. This is how you want to handle it:
Conversation high point
You; you like wine
Her: ...
You: we should split a bottle soon
Her: yes
You: shoot me your number & we'll plan when
Then go to text. Also never ask if she is free tomorrow, always ask when she is free. It's easier to work around her schedule
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Agreed. Your 2 messages after she said “yea we should” were bad.
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Ok. So, after I ask that question, I should’ve immediately asked for her number so that we could’ve planned things out. Also, my text game’s pretty bad on dating apps. I’m trying my best to improve it.