102 matches in 2 months...and still a virgin
I'm gonna be straight with everyone...I still suck at closing and texting and I don't know why... 102 match count and I still haven't been laid... pretty frustrated tbh. Any tips to rapidly improve on those two things would be great. Thanks
393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)
How many of those 102 matches actually led to dates? First, we gotta figure out if the issue is your textgame or shit that you're doing in real life or both. From what I've seen in the past when you've posted screenshots, your textgame was quite off and way too needy. After you answer the question, we can help you more
About 30-40 lead to dates, no hookups. I've actually been told I'm charming in person and really funny (by these women) but no hookups because I pussy out and I agree my text game is needy.
7 Posts (+1), 95 Cmts (+8)
102 matches.. Are you liking every single woman?
Pretty jealous, I wish I had so many but Tinder hates me. If you aren't getting laid you should learn to make the first move, kiss the girl everything else comes from alone.
I had the same issue as you, what helped me was watching a movie with a girl at mine, at some point you'll just make out with her.
If that doesn't do it, tell her you're sore and ask her to give you a massage. Afterwards return the favor, that turns her on.
Nah I'm pretty selective actually, I guess I just have cool hobbies and a great profile. But to me, numbers don't matter if they aren't converted to lays. Just means I'm wasted potential haha
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7 Posts (+1), 95 Cmts (+8)
Nice man, well if you've seen my profile here I have quite cool Hobbys and pictures too. But Tinder is limiting the amount of girls they show my profile too because I'm some kind of blacklisted. When I physically travel somewhere I get lots of likes and Superlikes in a few hours but at home I barely get any.
Just try what I suggested, even just invite girls over to yours go for a walk, then go to yours and watch a movie. Eventually you will escalate because it will be natural. All a matter of practice
16 Posts (+66), 242 Cmts (+331)
If you went on 30-40 dates with 102 matches, that is super impressive. If none lead to a lay, I am curious how you got to those dates. First thing that comes to mind is you not taking risks. Lets say if you took more risks to get her to your place, you may have met less than those 30-40, but you'd have more lays. Or far more opportunities to. Lets say you went even more sexual and forward, you'd get far less dates, but far more lays. You have to look over your text game and look for flaws. You must be ultra friendly and being very very safe. Even the worst gamers could turn 40 dates into at least one lay with persistence and intent. I'd have to see your interactions to really tell you.
22 Posts (+19), 56 Cmts (+2)
I don't take risks with that stuff...long story short I was sexually assaulted in college and then accused of sexual assault myself (because I was the man in the situation so obviously) and I sort of have this irrational fear toward escalating because of it. Started going to therapy though to work that shit out
22 Posts (+19), 56 Cmts (+2)
And to answer your curiousity, I get a lot of help from Nitin in the group and have some really cool interest and high quality photos due to modeling.