I'm gonna be straight with everyone...I still suck at closing and texting and I don't know why... 102 match count and I still haven't been laid... pretty frustrated tbh. Any tips to rapidly improve on those two things would be great. Thanks
+1
20 Comments
20 Cmts
7y ago
22 Posts (+19), 56 Cmts (+2)
Like Ive had girls tell me they want me to put my beard between their thighs and I STILL pussy out...
393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)
Holy fuck! First off, do you mean to say that out of a 100 matches, you get 30-40 dates? because that would be extremelyX3 impressive match to date ratio.
In terms of the dates not leading to dates, it sounds like you already know what the issue is. Knowing is the first step, and I believe you know what the correct course of action is, it just sounds like you are not taking it. Not trying to be a dick, but that's the pain of letting lay after lay slip away not outweigh the temporary discomfort of escalating. I can promise you one thing, the first time is always the hardest. If you take enough action, it will get to a point where escalating is literally a joke, You'll feel maybe half a butterfly and then laugh at it, but the only way to get to that point is by walking through the fire first
22 Posts (+19), 56 Cmts (+2)
Not being a dick at all man you're right, I go consinaten on 1-2 dates a week (not all tinder) and Ive spent a lot of money on coffees just not to get laid. Went out Saturday and the girl, my teacher at the college I graduated from, mentioned BDSM and openly talked about it and I didn't even fucking kiss her...
0 Posts (+0), 16 Cmts (+3)
What are you so afraid of ?
22 Posts (+19), 56 Cmts (+2)
Well long story short...and this is gonna sound sad but, I was sexually assaulted in college and accused of sexual assault myself. So Ive always been very freaked out to initiate after that incident. Recently started going to therapy for it so it msy help