I had a stressful day at work. I just wanted to sleep and not go out but this girl started giving IOIs. Said she's going out, I thought I'd meet her outside but I had no energy or motivation to go out only to get this girl. She starts hitting me up, I jumped the boat and invited her over and it went sideways. I want to know How and where Alex would've sent different messages Do you punish noncompliance when she seems DTF Should I've pushed it further that night. Should I have sext here? Which message did I exactly fucked up. What to do next? I was going to send 'Wow, your friends really don't want you to be eaten out?' or 'Keep up this attitude, its just adding to your spankings' I remember Alex's youtube video where he said if she's dtf you should make it happen or some other guy would fuck her so I was just trying to get her over.