I'm gonna be straight with everyone...I still suck at closing and texting and I don't know why... 102 match count and I still haven't been laid... pretty frustrated tbh. Any tips to rapidly improve on those two things would be great. Thanks
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If you went on 30-40 dates with 102 matches, that is super impressive. If none lead to a lay, I am curious how you got to those dates. First thing that comes to mind is you not taking risks. Lets say if you took more risks to get her to your place, you may have met less than those 30-40, but you'd have more lays. Or far more opportunities to. Lets say you went even more sexual and forward, you'd get far less dates, but far more lays. You have to look over your text game and look for flaws. You must be ultra friendly and being very very safe. Even the worst gamers could turn 40 dates into at least one lay with persistence and intent. I'd have to see your interactions to really tell you.
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I don't take risks with that stuff...long story short I was sexually assaulted in college and then accused of sexual assault myself (because I was the man in the situation so obviously) and I sort of have this irrational fear toward escalating because of it. Started going to therapy though to work that shit out
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And to answer your curiousity, I get a lot of help from Nitin in the group and have some really cool interest and high quality photos due to modeling.