Alright boys, imma need some serious help here. This girl is smoking hot, just my type and was extremely receptive and well invested up until 2 days ago. As you can see from the screenshots, she was literally responding within minutes, most of the times. Did I do something wrong? I know some of my questions and answers were quite platonic but she just seemed interested in the smaller/boring details so I calibrated to that. My question now is, what's the best way to re-engage? I really want to meet her as she genuinely seems like a cool interesting girl and plus she is smoking hot. My thoughts on re-engaging now are: Busy weekend? No? Appreciate it

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So she's just replied with:
"No not really"
"I'll be leaving soon"

Now, how do I go about turning the conversation a but more playful and fun?

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try one of these

  1. "oh ya, starting an onlyfans huh?"

  2. "gotcha, so what are you looking for on here?"

  3. "well give me some of the other basics besides your job. Any kids, tattoos, pets, favorite weekend spots, or crazy exes?"

I would say you should probably use 2 or 3 though given you probably need to ease back in given the hole you dug yourself into. Also watch alex's video on the 5 step frame work for setting up dates when on online dating. You need to be taking the conversation somewhere and right now you are not.

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M

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I like the onlyfans line haha. I'll steal this one !

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