Hi guys, I had a date with this girl last night and I couldn’t close. But we did made out. I asked when her when I’m going to see her again and she said today she will be free after her errands and we can grab some food. We had a good vibe and good chemistry. This was the last conversation and just now she sent me this low investment text. Ima little confused. And then she text me saying sue already made plans with her friends. That’s pretty fucked up and I’m so confuse. Can someone help me to analyze this. What did I do wrong , What should I have done better and how should I proceed now ? Thank you @Alex
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118 Posts (+42), 716 Cmts (+312)
I would have proposed a plan or idea the night before instead of saying to plan in the morning, right after she said sure you had a chance to build on the commitment by laying out a plan and not doing so have her a window to do what she did
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Yeah you are right. I realized that after bro. I thought since it’s too late set up the plan yesterday(next day). Can I do anything to move forward here? I didn’t reply just liked her message
118 Posts (+42), 716 Cmts (+312)
I’d wait 3 days and Ryan gosling meme, banter/vibe a few texts then go for another soft close