This is the same girl I’ve posted about a few times now. I finally was able to close and gave her a choice of sat or sun for our date. I probably should’ve Jaír went right with like Saturday at x time, but I wanted to give options just in case. She responds with a stupid excuse that seems like she’s ignoring the date kind of. I was thinking of saying something along the lines of “let’s go out Saturday night and I’ll have you back to your friends in an hour”. I think using a false time constraint could be good here because I know if we meet I can close. Any other response ideas? Thanks for the help
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I would not respond to that. I can't stand chicks like this. Only way it'll work is if she organically sees you with another girl out somewhere or perhaps online
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I completely agree. The thing is I’m not currently active on dating apps and yeah it’s possible I see her out but that’s like a toss up. It’s way more likely I’ll close and it will go well if I actually go out with her. I say that because I know 2 of her friends and they cock blocked me last time with one of their other friends. I’m thinking of saying something like let’s meet Sunday night a x time and if not I’ll move on. Just cause personally ghosting isn’t really my thing. Do you have any thoughts for an alternative option?
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"well that's a bit vague, you'll have to give me a time and place where y'all will be, & I'll do my best"