I've never done BDSM, don't know much about it. But I took Alex's advice and put dominant on my profile. Somehow I landed upon an unsuspecting BDSM chick and I'm not sure how to proceed. She alluded to having equipment at home, though I'm uncertain if it's sarcasm. Do I need to purchase any gear, and is she going to expect that I know certain etiquette and guidelines? Help a newbie out :) Any advice and criticism welcome. Messages are labeled in numerical order.