Thank you for your insight, I really appreciate it. You can probably tell I'm a beginner It's actually as far as I've gone with a girl on tinder really trying not to mess it up, although my worries were in vain (kinda) since she replied with "I hang out with friends" and "idk I do different stuff every day"
Edit: struggling to find a good reply I tend to overthink a lot, I'm not sure what I should say to put me on the right track again
You're on the path to getting better bro, don't sweat it.
Watch Alex's texting videos and read the LRs - it's a huge help and the best thing you can do rn. Have some confidence in yourself, keep your eye on the prize and lock down that date.
I'd say drop it for a few days reingage with some flirty sexual tension can be as light as setting the scene of the date but you need her to be more engaged she doesn't seem too comfortable or enthusiastic about the idea yet
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these are all from today? just wait 2 days and reopen.
When she said she's free Monday, be specific with the time: "Monday's perfect. I'm free after 6... 7 cool?" You get the idea.
and... the next time you're picking a spot, stick to one place. the more decisive you are the better.
good luck bro
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Thank you for your insight, I really appreciate it. You can probably tell I'm a beginner It's actually as far as I've gone with a girl on tinder really trying not to mess it up, although my worries were in vain (kinda) since she replied with "I hang out with friends" and "idk I do different stuff every day"
Edit: struggling to find a good reply I tend to overthink a lot, I'm not sure what I should say to put me on the right track again
2 Posts (+0), 101 Cmts (+47)
You're on the path to getting better bro, don't sweat it.
Watch Alex's texting videos and read the LRs - it's a huge help and the best thing you can do rn. Have some confidence in yourself, keep your eye on the prize and lock down that date.
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Huge feeling she is going to flake, don't know what to answer here, don't want to come off too strong nor too weak
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I'd say drop it for a few days reingage with some flirty sexual tension can be as light as setting the scene of the date but you need her to be more engaged she doesn't seem too comfortable or enthusiastic about the idea yet
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"I like making firm plans. Doesn't sound very confident"
low investment girl. treat her as such