I noticed a pattern of her suggesting her own place and time instead of mine. That wouldn't be a problem, but the red flag is that she's not asking if we could do another place/time, she's directly saying "we can meet in ...", "too late", etc. Is that reasonable for her to do? Btw we're in the southern US, so at 7pm it's already pretty dark
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Update: she agreed to meet at a bar that is like halfway through, for our 1st date. We each got one drink, I paid (she didn't offer to pay her part), then suggested we go for a walk on the promenade, then back to my place. She said she barely knows me. Before leaving, we hooked up in her car, but not "all the way". Later, I invited her over to my place for 2nd date, but she again says she barely knows me, even though we already went on one date. I try to find out her what's her concern, but it doesn't seem to get anywhere. I was thinking of "shit testing" her with something like "Admit it, you are interested. Especially with a bad boy like me š".
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Yeah, this is why I never do half-way dates because pulling is really difficult. If you have done a bar near your place, you've probably have bee able to pull her. I've looked at the SS and it looks like she got turned off when you invited her to your place. I think it's probably a lost cause. But as a last resource you can offer to meet her at a public place, like at another bar.