Talked a bit with this girl, she's an OF model and local, meet her through some FB swinging groups. We had a really good convo. Yesterday, I sent her a message, my phone glitched, and I didn't see it for an hour, then was hanging with my GF all night so not a good time to text other girls. This morning I tried to restart the convo but I'm getting dry answers. "Just wanted to say hi, and see what your schedule is like" Sounds a bit too simple.. or am I overcomplicating things in my head?
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Thanks for the insight. Not sure I can pull that on this one. I haven’t practiced that, so don’t feel confident or congruent on this on.
I do agree I have to move the convo out for close. Just not sure how to re-establish rapport again after that last message where I dropped the ball.
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You’re validating her too much, and coming off as over eager. The whole “I gotta run, sincere pleasure” was extra you didn’t need to say that. Also, over using emojis, sprinkle one in here and there. but with hola guapa how’s your Monday was all you needed there, no emoji.
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Fair. Good points. What’s a good way to re-engage?