What to text?
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Talked a bit with this girl, she's an OF model and local, meet her through some FB swinging groups. We had a really good convo. Yesterday, I sent her a message, my phone glitched, and I didn't see it for an hour, then was hanging with my GF all night so not a good time to text other girls. This morning I tried to restart the convo but I'm getting dry answers.
"Just wanted to say hi, and see what your schedule is like"
Sounds a bit too simple.. or am I overcomplicating things in my head?
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"If you're into such a thing..."
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Why are you online dating if you have a GF ? What's your goal? If it's just to hook up with tons of chicks why do you have a GF?
I'm asking because if you're just trying to improve your game you're starting at the wrong place. Here you're only learning how to text, it's such a tiiiiiny aspect of game.
Why don't you learn dating and relationship skills instead ? You'll be better as a man and you'll actually learn how to pickup women and keep them.
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We swing and are into experimenting with an open relationship
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Hey, how do I find these fb swinging groups in my city?
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The "hola guapa" wasn't necessary, felt forced and overused (you said something similar earlier in the interaction). Also try not to like that many messages, the likes lose their power if you do that to much. You needed to move things along with a number close to get that much closer to sealing the deal so to speak. Regardless, it's a pretty decent game otherwise. This is a bit tricky, what I would do now is:
Send her a picture of a coffee.
(For reference, this is a variation of a text Alex uses where he sends the girl a picture of a bottle of wine that has his tattoo in it as well, it gives the conversation some life and also some threads on convo/soft close opportunity)
I would accompany the picture with something like "Have my coffee, just need some ________;)" - (insert girl's name), it's one of my fav lines and it works wonders because it shows intent but it's not too sexual, you can move things forward from there.
Anyway, those are my thoughts, hope this helps bro and goodluck.
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Thanks for the insight. Not sure I can pull that on this one. I haven’t practiced that, so don’t feel confident or congruent on this on.
I do agree I have to move the convo out for close. Just not sure how to re-establish rapport again after that last message where I dropped the ball.
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You’re validating her too much, and coming off as over eager. The whole “I gotta run, sincere pleasure” was extra you didn’t need to say that. Also, over using emojis, sprinkle one in here and there. but with hola guapa how’s your Monday was all you needed there, no emoji.