I approached this girl at the gym who I’ve seen quite often, wanting to get to know her. It worked out well cuz we were waiting for the same machine and we ended up working in with each other. There was good banter and it made sense for me to suggest that we hangout sometime. So I did and got her number. We started texting and then she just stopped answering; it’s been a couple days already. Do I bother to double text her (if so, what would I say), or do I just wait to start a new conversation when I see her at the gym?
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Awesome dude, thanks for the feedback. What do you think is best for me to do in the situation I’m in now?
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send her the line "so give me some of the basics, any kids, tattoos, pets, favorite weekend activities, crazy exes or fun kinks" (you can leave the fun kinks part out if you think you are too platonic frame right now but I prefer to be more polarizing and sexual.
Then after you go through that process you ask her if she likes wine.
search alex's videos on cold approach where he shows the approach then shows the texting after to get the date. That should help you with the optimal sequence overall.