Hello so last week on the 19th this month April. Met with this one girl online from a dating a Hookup app. We met up & we got some coffee at night. Like Dutch, & we were making out, (sorry for the details) she gave me head. We didn’t do anything else tho beyond that. I tried going to the back seat but she didn’t want to. She told me it was her first time doing that. And she said she really wanted to kiss me & really thought J was handsome. I actually liked her vibe, especially when she told me she was in school for a doctor. She never had a bf either. I told her it’s cool & next time we should study together. She said yes, & I walked her to her dorm (we were at her university & was chilling in my car), kissed goodbye. When I got home she sent me a lot of emoji messages & asking if I made it home. We text here & there, but recently she hasn’t responded. Like slowly made her text less & less. Last time she texted me was on Saturday. Hasn’t got none since, no text. Did she lose interest or something? She also has finals last week & this week she told me. She had 4 now from last time she told me. She sends emojis & stuff still like “thank you 😌” after wishing her good on finals. Should I keep pursing or leave her?

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avilench . Avatar

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I would need to know what your last message to her was before answering

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It was me saying something like “Don’t give up” & “what type of finals do you have? Exams or projects”

These were the last texts before that were: “ I got a 108% in the class (not to brag lol)

Dam, don’t stress, stay focused

Work hard and u will pass, u got this 💯”

Her last texts were 1 her liking the message and “4” & “ Thank you thank you 😌”

Update: She recently saw the message on Saturday, literally 1 week later, left me on read. And yesterday Removed me off snap & unfollowed and removed me from instagram.

I didn’t double text or nothing

Did I do the wrong thing? & should I try reach out or leave it

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avilench . Avatar

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I see. the issue is almost certainly that you didn't close on the 1st date and so she lost interest. Doubt it had anything to do w/ your texting

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