Hello so last week on the 19th this month April. Met with this one girl online from a dating a Hookup app. We met up & we got some coffee at night. Like Dutch, & we were making out, (sorry for the details) she gave me head. We didn’t do anything else tho beyond that. I tried going to the back seat but she didn’t want to. She told me it was her first time doing that. And she said she really wanted to kiss me & really thought J was handsome. I actually liked her vibe, especially when she told me she was in school for a doctor. She never had a bf either. I told her it’s cool & next time we should study together. She said yes, & I walked her to her dorm (we were at her university & was chilling in my car), kissed goodbye. When I got home she sent me a lot of emoji messages & asking if I made it home. We text here & there, but recently she hasn’t responded. Like slowly made her text less & less. Last time she texted me was on Saturday. Hasn’t got none since, no text. Did she lose interest or something? She also has finals last week & this week she told me. She had 4 now from last time she told me. She sends emojis & stuff still like “thank you 😌” after wishing her good on finals. Should I keep pursing or leave her?
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I see. the issue is almost certainly that you didn't close on the 1st date and so she lost interest. Doubt it had anything to do w/ your texting
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Close? What do you mean by that?
And is it possible to reach out still or her come back?
Want to learn also for future relationships, learn lessons on this for future meet up with other women
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when i saw close i say have sex with her. when you dont close on the first date a lot of times you dont get a second.
and yes you can reach out to her it doesnt hurt to try.