Good, you’re moving it forward. Set the date. On your date, find out what her logistics are. Since you already framed it as a coffee date and your logistics is not good right now, you may have to do the second date at her place if possible. During the coffee date, look for an activity that can be done at her place and plant that idea (board games, wine, playing guitar, karaoke, listening to vinyl or whatever you can find). hopefully she’s not living at home