Met a girl in grad school. Says she has a boyfriend, won't give me her number or social media. But always tries to talk to me and get my attention which I understand cuz that dude is not here. But she always waits til the time I'm leaving and happens to show up at the same place everyday where I get on the bus stop. Not sure if she is just wasting my time for attention or she just wants to hook up low key without anyone finding out? She is always looking nice when she tries talking to me.

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I think these girls are down to clown with me. I had a few girls call me sexy, which did not happen when i was younger. But it seems like a lot of these type of girls have boyfriends or their boyfriends are not presently here. Some just waste my time for attention. How do I escalate these things quickly to bang? I know some of them want to. the problem is a lot of girls waste my time. i know other guys who girls think are less attractive at my grad school bangin chics all the time, but I dont understand why its harder for me when they are more attracted to me than those guys loll

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Starts with believing, and getting to the point of knowing, that all attractive women want to bang me. Especially the ones in boring traditional relationships. It's literally true if you're the right guy.

Then you give her opportunities low key when you see them:

"I'm going back to my place for a nightcap. What are you doing (shut up and wait for her answer)"

"What's on the agenda for your evening/night". She says whatever, wine/Netflix/bar/just relaxing. "Oh, Ive been meaning to do more chilling out and wine/Netflix/relaxing, been crazy lately,that sounds perfect (shut up and wait for her reply)"

That make sense?

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True true! There was a girl who I think wanted to bang and would wait til I was leaving so we would be at the bus stop together at same time. I think she wanted me to take her home and hit it. But I didn't get the clues lmao. And now she thinks I'm a beta lol. So I'm not sure if I lost my chance but if it comes again, I'll have to pull the trigger thanks to your advice!

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