Met a girl in grad school. Says she has a boyfriend, won't give me her number or social media. But always tries to talk to me and get my attention which I understand cuz that dude is not here. But she always waits til the time I'm leaving and happens to show up at the same place everyday where I get on the bus stop. Not sure if she is just wasting my time for attention or she just wants to hook up low key without anyone finding out? She is always looking nice when she tries talking to me.
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44 Posts (+21), 550 Cmts (+363)
I never ask, I don't care. If I know the dude, or if I know the dude is a cop or something, then I won't escalate. It's none of my business if she wants to step out on her LTR or even marriage. Vast majority of guys have no idea how much long term married women absolutely crave the idea of cheating. They get bored too after a few years tops. I met a Christian woman (lol!) last Saturday night around midnight, friend of a female friend of mine, not even that hot just sorta cute, saying drunkenly that if she wasn't married, ooh look at Life Skills (to her friend), how she's been married 16 years and is bored (couldn't find the words, so I did and she just nodded), then she goes onto say she wants an open marriage but he doesn't.
Can you imagine being that poor guy, his wife in a bar on a SAT night telling me this shit?
Women are entirely amoral creatures. And yet I still get triggered by flaking lol, I should know better. But I couldn't care less if a woman is cheating with me, again - unless I know the bf/husband etc.
Personally my only ethic is I would never bang a friend's wife or girlfriend. Everything else, well... all's fair in love and war
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I think these girls are down to clown with me. I had a few girls call me sexy, which did not happen when i was younger. But it seems like a lot of these type of girls have boyfriends or their boyfriends are not presently here. Some just waste my time for attention. How do I escalate these things quickly to bang? I know some of them want to. the problem is a lot of girls waste my time. i know other guys who girls think are less attractive at my grad school bangin chics all the time, but I dont understand why its harder for me when they are more attracted to me than those guys loll
44 Posts (+21), 550 Cmts (+363)
Starts with believing, and getting to the point of knowing, that all attractive women want to bang me. Especially the ones in boring traditional relationships. It's literally true if you're the right guy.
Then you give her opportunities low key when you see them:
"I'm going back to my place for a nightcap. What are you doing (shut up and wait for her answer)"
"What's on the agenda for your evening/night". She says whatever, wine/Netflix/bar/just relaxing. "Oh, Ive been meaning to do more chilling out and wine/Netflix/relaxing, been crazy lately,that sounds perfect (shut up and wait for her reply)"
That make sense?