To keep this brief; yes to that last question. I would say get to know her a little bit more plain and simple. Don’t just go straight for the meet up. Start to be involved with the convo by asking her questions like, “are you from here originally” and so on, although not too much where it becomes an interview just keep things light and flirty. Remember, things like these take some time and effort to build so kind of connection, you know. Don’t be overly pushy and definitive. Text game is like a waltz you take one step she takes another step and etc. Hope this got the message across. You got this homie!