So how would you guys respond ? Attached our whole convo for context, but my question basically refers to the very end of the last screenshot (hopefully they're in order, but just in case i also indicated the sequence in the upper part of the screenshots themselves) "Hi, I asked what evenings are you free first week of Jan" (Replying to "Yass") "attagirl, so when are you free first week of jan" Just ignore the fact that she ignored it and like her message "Happy holidays to you too ! We'll just see if our amor will stand the test of time" Open to other suggestions as well. Just wanna make sure I don't screw this one up lol Context : We've been casually chatting for over a week now since we matched (we both take ages to reply), eventually soft closed and got a positive response, but when i went for hard close she said she was already fully booked for the rest of the year. I said no problem me too, asked her when is she free first week of jan but as you can see, I didn't get a direct response. It's annoying but probably my fault since my previous message basically contained two messages (have to keep reminding myself to keep messages short and direct/one-idea per message, especially when closing) Last question too, in general : what do you think about leaving a girl on read for a substantial period of time ? is it helpful, harmful, or doesn't matter ? Cos in this example, and since i'm in a different timezone than you guys, she'll have been left on read for half a day or more by the time i respond to her